He Stuffed Me Under a Chair
July of 2001 and I have been called into a building on the grounds of the Shaolin Temple that no white people have been allowed into before.
It feels like a billion degrees out; the humidity is off the charts and to make it even more fun, I feel like I am going to barf from nerves since I am about to fight for my next rank in the Shaolin Arts…at the friggin’ Shaolin Temple…against a guy I have never seen or heard of…whose going for his Masters rank…in front of two of the highest ranking Masters in the Shaolin Arts.
Piece of cake.
In the Temple hall, it’s dark; the walls are ornately carved with different symbols out of a dark cherry wood. The ceilings have to be about twenty feet high. The floors are a slate-grey granite rock; there are chairs lining the walls, leaving the middle of the floor empty.
This is where we are about to get it on.
I’ve never seen this guy before; he’s a bit older and larger than I am and all I know is that he’s a cop back in New York City and he’s been training a long time.
At this point, I am doing the absolute wrong thing and allowing my mind to run wild with all sorts of negative thoughts – he’s better than I am, what if he’s too fast for me, what about this, what about that…
You know - all that junk that puts you in less than your best mindset for doing anything, much less entering into combat.
I’m called to the center of the floor, we face and show respect to the Masters and then each other. My brain is somewhere else, my heart’s racing and I don’t think I’m breathing…
I don’t remember hearing the word “Go”. I don’t remember much of anything in that time period – one minute I was standing there, paying my respects, the next…
I was stuffed underneath one of the chairs that were lining the walls and my opponent was on top of me, blasting me in the face with punches.
All that junk that was running through my mind must have caused me to have a momentary HUMA condition – Head Up My Azz – because I didn’t react or see anything coming…he was just on me and wearing me out.
After the umpteenth punch to my melon, I removed my head from my azz and got very focused. No negative thoughts, no negative anything – just one thought…
“Oh yeah…let’s get it on, baby!”
From that moment on, the match went very differently. I won’t go into specifics other than to say I stopped imitating a punching bag and didn’t visit the chairs or floors for the rest of the fight.
But that wasn’t the best part – or the lesson – that I learned.
At the end of the match, the Professor has us show respect again to each other. My opponent and I stood there facing each other – bloody, gasping for air and covered in dirt and grime…
And broke out into huge grins, grabbing each other in big bear hugs. I looked him in the eye and told him, “Thank You.”
I told him thanks for stuffing me under the chairs - for punching me in the face. For kicking me upside my head when my guard was wrong.
I thanked him because he was teaching me. He was showing me where I was good and where I needed work. He was forcing me to see where I was in my skills and testing me to see how much heart I had.
He also reminded me to be grateful. Be grateful that I was healthy enough to be able to train and take a beating. To be able to do what I love and most importantly, to be grateful that I get to work with and help others through the martial arts.
That’s why I’m writing to you today. I wanted to say Thank You for helping to make Shaolin Secrets a success. May was the best month ever for the Secrets of the Shaolin Temple (http://www.shaolinsecrets.com) and it would have been impossible without you.
It is my honor that Professor Mattera choose me as his partner in this venture and it is also my honor that you join me every day as we spread the priceless lessons, principles and secrets contained in the Secrets of the Shaolin Temple.
All the best,
William Huff